Author Archives: Shelly Lefkoe

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Can children eliminate their negative beliefs?

I am often asked: Can the Lefkoe Belief Process (LBP) be used to help children eliminate negative beliefs? My answer is that it depends on the child: Is the child able to deal with the abstractions of the process?  If …

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LIFE IS A DARING ADVENTURE

“LIFE IS A DARING ADVENTURE OR NOTHING” – Helen Keller As I sit on the beach watching Blake fearlessly paddle into the first waves of the winter, on the famed North Shore of Oahu where she lives, I began reflecting …

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Step-Parenting

After working with thousands of clients it struck me that many stepparents are frequently blamed by their stepchildren for their problems. Here are some insights into why this happens.

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The Best Way to Get ‘Unstuck’

Everyday we wake up to the same alarm clock, the same morning routine, and the same problems and fights and we think that our lives are “normal” or that there is nothing we can do to change, it is “just the way life is.” But almost all these negative beliefs that haunt us everyday are formed in childhood. The good news is these beliefs can be eliminated and once you go through this elimination process you’ll see how powerful this is in your own life and how you can begin to implement changes in the life of your child too.

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Bullying – Why Giving Your Child Power is So Important

In the last few weeks four children have died as a result of bullying. . What is causing this problem and how can we stop it? . Do you ever find yourself saying things to your child like “because I …

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What is My Job As a Parent?

“How many times do I have to tell you?” “What am I ever going to do with you?” “What’s wrong with you?” “Don’t you ever listen?” Imagine yourself to be a young child listening to your parents repeatedly ask you …

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Happy Belated Mother’s Day!

HAPPY MOTHERS DAY! I know that I’ve missed the boat on this one, but I’ll tell you why. I just spent one of the most glorious weeks with my girls who surprised me with a Mothers Day visit.  Blake lives …

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When will I be good enough?

“I’m on the cover of business publications and I’m worth millions. When is it going to be enough.” There are many people who achieve all the trappings of success—success being defined as making a lot of money, fame, and power—who …

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The 10 Things Parents Do That Sabotage Their Children’s Happiness And Success

Are You Sabotaging Your Child’s Success Unknowingly? Editor’s Note: Before you start reading watch this special video message from Shelly Lefkoe and don’t miss our Live and Interactive call with her Nov. 3rd, 2009! (see the bottom of the post …

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Morty and Shelly Lefkoe: What is My Job as a Parent?

“How many times do I have to tell you?” “What am I ever going to do with you?” “What’s wrong with you?” “Don’t you ever listen?” Imagine yourself to be a young child listening to your parents repeatedly ask you …

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